Budget Bride Tip for June 22: Skip the champagne toast
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When Angela and Walter Grauer realized how much a champagne toast would set them back for their Sept. 10, 2011, wedding at the John Michael Kohler Arts Center in Sheboygan, Wis., they decided to skip it altogether.
“My experience at weddings is so many people don’t enjoy champagne and let it set on the table,” says Angela, 35, a production sales specialist. “It’s just too expensive to go to waste.”
She surmises that guests are either already enjoying their favorite cocktail or beer, and don’t want to switch, or simply don’t care for champagne enough to take more than the obligatory sip.
Since the Grauers paid for alcohol by the glass, champagne for their 150 guests at $8 each would have cost $1,200.
“I’d hate to see all of it sitting on the table at the end of the night,” Angela says. “I would’ve known that I wasted a lot of money.”
Plus, the couple was determined to have an open bar for the entire evening and had splurged on the venue, including having the ceremony in the sculpture garden and renting the art gallery for guests to enjoy during the evening, so they were looking to cut costs where they could.
“When it came time for the toast, everyone was asked to raise their glass, whatever that glass may be, and everyone said, ‘Cheers,’ ” she says.
That included Angela and Walter, 40, vice president of information technology for a nonprofit, who didn’t have champagne, either.
The Grauers spent nearly $29,000 on their wedding day, more than the $25,631 an average wedding cost in 2011, according to The Wedding Report, a wedding industry research company.
But eliminating expenses such as the champagne toast kept the cost from creeping higher.
“Nobody said, ‘We missed the champagne,’ ” Angela says. “No one asked.”
Here are Walter and Angela on their big day ...
These are the newlyweds being toasted at their champagne-free reception ...
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